Emotional Release

I was recently talking to someone about releasing emotions, and how a slave might do that, be it stress or anger or anything at all. A slave can release all that pent up emotion in many different ways. How do I do it?

One way I release those emotions is through a cathartic cry. This usually happens during love making, the emotions just come pouring out through tears so quickly I can no longer hold them back. Thankfully, Master has become used to this and knows that when I use that release and shed those tears to release those feelings, all I need is for Him to hold and coddle me, which He does. His gentle, nurturing side is triggered by my tears in that situation, and I do my best not to take advantage of it.

Another way is through a good old fashion orgasm. Sometimes that is all it takes, an orgasm can just release all the stress a person builds up during a day. That instant of orgasmic peak, you can almost feel the stress melting away, leaving you relaxed and happy.

There is always sub space. Nothing can effect me when I am in space, I am floating above the world and all I can feel is pleasure. The emotional build up is just gone by the time I float back. The floating feeling is better than any high I have experienced ever, and when I return, I am relaxed and calm.

A good beating releases pent up emotions, too. Nothing like the violence of a beating to release emotions that can't be released any other way. Before I continue, remember, I am a pain slut, and when I say a beating, I mean a consensual beating in a BDSM situation. Many times I have been strapped to a St. Andrew's Cross or whipping post, or kneeling beside a spanking bench, when the whip cracks or the paddle whooshes through the air, landing with a thud, or a pop, or a snap, against my skin, every lash from the tool forcing me to let go of the built up emotions. I must confess, though, a beating can actually combine orgasm, crying, and sub space all in one act. That is probably why it is so effective at causing a release of all those emotions.

Screaming, crying, moaning, floating, exploding....they all release the emotions a slave might build up and lock away deep down, the emotions we may not show, or may not allow to come out to interfere with our service, or the emotions that we may feel are not submissive-like. Every submissive or slave needs an opportunity to let those emotions out once in a while, we need that release, just like anyone else does.

Slaves are not emotionless robots. That would make life boring. We just take our emotions and process them differently, we take the emotions and figure out how to show them in a way that positively effects our service. The release allows us to purge any emotions we can't deal with, we don't know how to deal with, and we just lock away to deal with later.