60 Days of Submission- Day 9

All caught up!!!! 

Day 9: 

"When you are alone together, stay naked. If you get cold then ask for permission to put on a bathrobe." 

This is a great way to show submission. As long as it is natural and not forced, it is a sweet thing to do. 

60 Days of Submission- Day 8

2 more and I'm all caught up! 

Day 8- 

"Warm a washcloth under water and request to wash and worship His feet. When you have cleaned His feet, kiss, suck, and lick them. Tell Him how much you love Him by making love to His body with your mouth and hands."

This is an awesome one! I love to worship Master's feet! I do, however, worship them without the addition of the washcloth to clean them. It is one of my personal ways to worship Master, to show Him I am nothing under His feet. I love to worship at His feet, to clean them with my tongue, to make love to His feet. 

60 Days of Submission- Day 7

Didn't realize I missed so many days, lol. 

Day 7

"Make Him whatever breakfast He enjoys best and serve it to Him in bed. Ask for permission to suck His cock, and if granted, pleasure Him while He eats." 

This is another one that is difficult to write about. I can see myself doing this for Master some day. 

60 Days of Submission Day 6

(Still catching up) 

Day 6: 

"When having sex, ask him for permission to cum. If He says no, than continue to enjoy your intimate time together. When He says yes, announce when you are cumming loud enough for the neighbors to hear. Show Him that you are His and want everyone to know it. Thank Him after your orgasm." 

This one is easy. Part of my training to be Master's slave and serve the way He likes and needs, I was trained to control my orgasms, to only orgasm on His command, no matter how, when or where. I can go from zero to mind-blowing, Earth-shattering orgasm in 2 seconds, all it takes is His command. 

A good slave always thanks her Master for every orgasm in the way she was trained to do, even if its just by obeying His direction as to the strength and duration of the orgasm. 

And, if appropriate, a slave screams so loud during orgasms that the neighbors need a cigarette! 

60 Days of Submission Day 5

Catching up... Day 5 

"Worship His cock. This isn't a blowjob, this is you making love to His cock with your mouth, tongue, hands, etc... Kiss it, lick it, smell it, taste it. Your Master's body is your temple at which you worship. Make it clear to Him that you love it." 

This one is a little more difficult to write. While sitting down to write this, I considered carefully what to say. 

I did not want this to turn into an erotic story. I wanted it to be my feelings about worshiping at the alter of Master. It is one of the greatest physical feelings in the world, worshiping at His alter. 

60 Days of Submission- Day 4

Day 4 

Kneel beside His bed at night and ask for permission to join Him. Thank Him for allowing you to be with Him and join Him in the bed when he is ready for You. Tell Him how much you appreciate and enjoy being with Him. 

Anyone who knows the type of slave I am knows I love to kneel or sit at His feet. It is where I am most comfortable. 

I have often considered adding this protocol to our dynamic, in the proper manner, of course. I do already usually ask if Master is ok with me going to bed followed by a good night text once permission is granted or the agreed upon time without a response passes. 

In my mind, at least, this is the same as what the entry is saying. 

The idea of kneeling at the side of Master's bed when He is home while waiting for Him to allow me to join Him is exciting but, with today's world and the pace of things, it may not always be practical but it is worth thinking about at least. 

I think the last part should be done daily, and I know I try to do it daily, either vocally, through actions, in text form, in this or other blogs, through prayer, or other forms of communication. The way it is added here, though, it seems as if it was an after thought to add telling Him you appreciate Him. 

Stay tuned for more! 

60 Days of Submission- Day 3

I know I missed yesterday, so here is yesterday's entry as well as today's after

Day 3: 

When you have done something bad or that He doesn't like, go to Him, tell Him, and ask to be punished. If He uses a belt or His hand to punish you, thank Him after each smack. Never do anything on purpose to receive punishment. 

It is human nature. Everyone is going to screw up. The key is to confess when you do mess up. By confessing, you are owning the action. You are saying you know you did wrong. 

Asking to be punished, though, is taking it a bit far. Once you confess, demanding punishment is topping from the bottom. 

As with everything, being punished in a high protocol relationship has some elements of ritual and protocol. Part of those protocols is to kiss whatever is used to punish me and to count, put loud, the swats. It is rate that I am given a physical punishment, though. 

I do like that the book added that last line to the entry. It seems to be an issue that is running rampant with the new crop of submissives lately, being a brat or misbehaving to manipulate their Top into doing what they want done. It is nothing more than manipulation. 

60 Days of Submission- Day 2

"Ask Him to spank you. This is more of a playful and intimate spanking. When a submissive offers themselves to their Master, even in the face of some pain, it reinforces the bond of trust and live between them" 

This one is a little different for me. I do not ask to be spanked or whipped any more. Instead I hint and beat around the bush. 

It has been several months since I have been spanked or whipped and, while I don't "need" it anymore, there are times I miss it. 

It is probably my slave's heart that doesn't come right out and ask for it. And I k ow Master can see through my hints, but I can't form the words to ask for it. Maybe it's because I know Master isn't as physical as some and if He wanted to spank of whip me, He would do it on His own without me asking for it. 

The day I feel the impact of the custom, heirloom flogger we had made will be a wonderful day for me. But it will be when Master feels I should feel it. 

Asking to be whipped or spanked it topping from the bottom, and maybe I do have a warped sense of topping from the bottom, but who knows. 

If I do get up the nerve to ask Him to spank or whip me, I know I need to have the grace and dignity to accept His answer, no matter what it is. 

60 Days of Submission-Day 1

"Whenever you speak to Him, call Him Sir or Master. You can do this by adding the term to the beginning or ending of what you say to Him. If around company than address Him in another respectful way" 

I actually considered skipping this one. Why? Because I do this already. I feel very uncomfortable if I have to use His given name. I do not like doing it. It feels weird and just not right to me. 

I feel more comfortable, more right using His title he has earned it in every way. 

But what about around company? What do I do around vanilla people if using Master's given name upsets me so much? Why does it upset me so much? I honestly do not know why it upsets me the way it does. Maybe it's my slave's heart, maybe it is the respect He commands when He walks into the room? I am not sure, honestly, and I don't know if Master really knows how much it effects me. 

What titles do I use? 

Master, of course. The traditional title used today for one in His position. 

I also use Máistir. This it Irish/Gaelic for Master. I use this title as a way to honor His ancestral history and legacy in this thing we do. It is the title I believe I have used for centuries with Him and holds special meaning for us both. 

When around vanillas I use either Sir or Love. Both titles confer respect and my submission in the inflection and use. And no one is any wiser about the terms being titles. 

I also use Daddy in private because of the Daddy/girl dynamic. 

I know today's thing was to actually use the titles, but I have decided to explore the terms I do use and the reasons for the use. 

60 Days of Submission

While looking for some new books to add to my library I found something being offered on Amazon for my new Kindle (Thank You Master!!!!!). A book called BDSM: 60 Days of Submission. So, this is my two month journey to being a better submissive, a better slave. 

Enjoy!