Friday, February 27, 2015

Why Being a Domme Makes Me a Better Slave

I know, I know, the title of this post is against everything I have stated in the past. But, it's true. Our partner has submitted it me. She is still Master's, but she has admitted that she feels submissive towards me, instead of insisting on living by some preconceived social role. She came into the relationship without and expectation based on what society or others have labeled her. 
Of her own free will she submitted to me. Instead of a collar at her throat, since that is Master's place, I have put a bracelet around her wrist. It feels very natural and right. 
But I find myself thinking more now. Trying to understand more how or why Master might want something done. I don't question Master at all. Because I am in that Domme role, I find myself trying harder to be a good slave. 
I find myself understanding the thought process surrounding different rules or commands. Looking at things from the Domme role, I see where some behavior can be considered annoying or irritating. 
I obey quicker, my mind is always in that setting of what I can do and why. I can more easily identify ways to show my submission and slavehood. I think quicker how I can show Master I'm thinking of service. 
Some say being a Domme at all means one isn't a slave. I say, not only can I be a Domme and a slave, but one enhances the other in this situation. 

1 comment:

  1. And now you understand, in part, why I went down that path :x

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