Oh my goddess!! My bio sister just had a baby girl last month. Even before she had the baby she was self centered. It is even worse now! She is ob-fucking-sessed with me dropping every fucking thing I am doing and going to visit her and the baby. You know, so I can sit there for two weeks and hear them bash Master, bash where we live, bash that we are making something of our lives, bash that I am fucking breathing wrong.
Let me ask a few questions here. Did any of them drop everything to come help and support us when we had our first? No, instead I heard complaints from them on the DAY OF HER FUNERAL that they did not get to meet her because we were not closer to them. HELLO??? WE barely got to know her, and Master's coworkers were there for us more than my sisters were. Oh, and I was supposed to just accept everyone giving me advice, lecturing me about one thing or another, you know, lecturing me about smoking a fucking cigarette on the day of my infant daughter's funeral? Or "Oh, its just too hard for your aunt to come today, she can't handle it" really?? Gee thanks, family.
Did they drop everything to come to help and visit when I had our second child? No, instead I got lectures, again, that we were no where near NYC. IN FACT, WE dropped everything and took our six week old son on a plane from Alaska to NY for mom's birthday. And I was greeted with lectures and disgust when I left the room to nurse my hungry child. They are one of the big reasons I didn't get to nurse as long as I wanted to.
When we moved to VA, 6 hours away, did they EVER visit? No. But did we visit? Yes, and I STILL got a lecture that we did not see them enough. But they run to SC to help my other sister who refuses to get clean.
Or, did they drop everything when I had our third child? Did they come to help and support and comfort us when she was stillborn? Did they even care or think to ask how my young son was doing? Did they even make an attempt at all? No, instead I got, you guessed it, a lecture about not living close enough, and "Oh, you just moved so we didn't think you were ready for house guests yet." Come on, FUCKING SERIOUSLY?? Yes, girl #2 gets arrested and her kids are almost taken away and they go running!
They accept that girl #2's husband is over the road (and can't be there to be sure she stays clean and does what she is supposed to) yet Master is wrong for being a trucker. Really?
So, we just moved, we are getting settled in, and I am expected to just drop everything and run to visit and help my sister who just had a baby? ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS? In fact, she fucking made arrangements for someone to meet me half way to help with the drive?? HELLO, the last time you asked if I was going to drive or fly there, I said I did not know when I would be able to think about it and the presumptuous bitch took that to mean I was driving up in two weeks? So she arranged for my sperm donor to meet me half way to help with the drive? Oh, and according to her, halfway is SC so I can pick up girl #2 and her kids as well. Uhh no. I told them all before I could even consider driving up there, I needed to get new tires for the van and needed to make sure the van was fixed enough to make the trip if I were to drive. But they don't give a flying fuck, I guess, they are just ordering me to do something and don't really care if I can or not.
And, you know, not once has anyone asked about the new place, how we are settling in, nothing, and no one has even thought that while, yes, I am happy for my sister, but they don't seem to care that it is still very hard for me to be around infant baby girls. They don't care what being around her might do to me mentally. Nope, they simply order me to drop everything and drive up to see the baby and to help my sister.
Can they be any more self centered?
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