"I have just had my first orgasm ever. I have had others try to give me one, but they have never succeeded. Now, this new man comes in and can do something that not even I have been able to do for myself. I have heard from some women that it is easier to have an orgasm with oral sex. I have heard the orgasm is more intense also. Is this true? Is it easier to orgasm through oral? I am a little frightened of the fact that he was able to make me orgasm so strongly with just light rubbing on my clit."
There is nothing to be frightened of. As long as there is nothing physically wrong with your sex organs, revel in a lover who can make you orgasm so quickly, Learn from him. He might be able to teach you a trick or two about how he was able to get you to orgasm so well, tricks you might not have thought about yourself. I wonder, if you now know you can physically orgasm, why you have never been able to reach climax on your own. If you have been able to bring yourself to orgasm since this happened, then one can assume that you just were unsure of the technique and now you have found one that works. As far as oral goes. Many women have said to me that they orgasm quicker, harder, and longer with oral sex then with anything else. So as far as the general female population, from the women I know, including yours truly, I would have to agree with this statement. As long as the partner who is performing the oral does not act like it is a chore and like they dislike the act of giving oral sex, it should be an enjoyable experience for you, and yes, you may have a stronger, more intense orgasm sooner. But, that just means you will have more time for your partner to give you more then one climax!
"As far as sex goes, what does 'vanilla' mean? I have seen it used in different places and have no idea what it means. A little help?"
When used to refer to a sexual technique or a sexual act, the term vanilla means just what it sounds like, plain and society's version of normal. Sex without kink or fetish free sex.
"My boyfriend is very shy about having sex. He thinks he has a small penis. He is African American, 5'8" tall, and his penis is only 6 1/2 inches at full erection. Is he right that he is small?"
It seems that your boyfriend's psyche has fallen prey to typical society stereotypes. Race has nothing to do with penis size, it is simply body size and proportions. An average male of average height (between 5'6" and 5'10") will have an average penis size of 6 to 7 1/2 inches at full erection. So, your boyfriend's penis size is normal, not small. If he would like to give himself the appearance or a bigger penis, some men find that shaving the pubic area gives the visual of a larger penis.
"My girlfriend does not have a clit. Can she still orgasm if I rub her labia?"
Has a doctor told her she does not have a clit? If not, then she does have one. It may be small, it may be shy, or she may have a large hood that is preventing you from finding it. A little patience, a little luck, and a little extra attention may be able to coax her clit out of hiding. If, in fact, her doctor has confirmed the absence of a clit because of defect or illness, she can still orgasm through external stimulation of her labia or through g-spot stimulation.
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