When Master was still driving over the road, we had discussed making one day He was home dedicated to kink play. The idea never really went anywhere. I know why. At that point, I needed to dedicate more time to out of the bedroom service. As Master says, being a slave is not really being a slave if it is only when it is convenient to me.
I still have some ways to go before I am as much a slave outside the bedroom as I am in, but I am making progress.
I have three days off a week, with two usually in a row. I have been dedicating the first day off to relaxing, and the second day off to cleaning and getting the house in order. I have been trying to keep up with things like the laundry and day to day tidying. I make Master's lunch more days than I don't, or at least provide snacks and supplies for Him. When I don't work or on days I get home before He goes to work, I make sure to lay out His clothes, or gather them for Him when He is getting dressed.
I am trying to improve my out-of-the-bedroom service.
As I continue to improve, I would love to revisit the idea of having one day a month where we engage in kink play. Explore things like wax play, or fire cupping (it was one of our favorite things in the past before life got in the way), M/s emote texts, regular cupping, using some of our toys (the riding crop or the paddles, maybe even the whips), kneeling at His feet with collar and leash while watching TV or while He plays on the computer, watching porn together (another favorite), or sensory deprivation.
Just some random thoughts I guess.
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