Lesson in Futility

It seems this is a lesson in futility if I have ever seen one, unfortunately. We have been unable to find a thire, no matter where we look. How hard is it?
I mean, Master has a few very simple rules, daily contact and complete honesty and loyality. You follow those and you will be treated like a princess. I just do not understand why we can't seem to find another person.
We are not looking just for sex here, which I think may be part of the problem. We are smack dab in the Bible Belt, hell, we are the buckle of said Bible Belt. But it seems that every person we talk to who may be interested in joining us has some reason to not be into it.
The last girl, it turns out, would not know the truth if it bit her on the nose and is in it only for the kinky sex. That is all fine and dandy but be honest about it. If we had known that, we may heva actually fooled around a little.
Before her was my former sister who just stopped contacting us, stopped blogging, and stopped answering emails. I really do not think she was as into it as we were becasue she would never take things further then email, IM, or text.
All we ask is that the girl be honest with us, contact Master at least once a day, and be faithful. If she can do all those things, she will be treated like a princess.
Is it that unheard of for a Dom in a poly relationship to be as dedicated to both girls as He is to one? I really do not know what to do.
This will sound weird to those who are not polyamorists, but it feels like something is missing when we don't have another person int he relationship. That is not to say I don't love Master or that we don't satisfy each other, we do, but we enjoy sharing that love and that intimacy with others.
I just don't know what to do anymore. Maybe I should grab a group of friends and go tot he local gay bar, if there even is one around here, to pick up someone, lol...