Codes....

There are codes for everything in life. Zip codes tell where something is located, area codes tell where you are calling, call letters are codes telling you what network you are watching/listening to, a code of conduct is how someone should behave, and a code of discipline is an outline of discipline for breaking a code of conduct. These are only a few examples. 

There is one code that I have been fascinated by for years, the hanky code. This is also called "flagging." With this code, there are different color hankies that a man will stick in his back pocket, and each color means something different, and the meaning changes based on which side the flag is worn in. 

I would love to create an updated version of this code for straight D/s or M/s couples. Instead of flagging, maybe a hanky or bandana around the wrist. I already "flag" but in my own way, with my head coverings. Just like with gay males flagging, more than one color could be appropriate at any given time, but one would "flag" what was most appropriate for that day or time. (I am using the term flag in quotes for the straight version since there is no name for the system yet and I want to differentiate between my version and the real, time honored version). I tend to "flag" for whatever head space I am finding myself in more, slave, little, kitten, etc... 

In my version, since most people are right handed, anything signifying Dominant or Top is on the left wrist so it does not hinder a Top's "working hand" and anything signifying submissive or bottom is on the right wrist, so their Top is involved in every action of the bottom. These codes are still being thought of, and I have some basics here. 

BLACK: High Protocol Named Master/named slave 

RED: Heavy Masochist/blood slut sadist 

BROWN: Rigger/rope bunny 

DARK GRAY: Owner/pet 

DARK GREEN: Daddy/little

LIGHT BLUE: Master who owns a slave/owned slave 

WHITE: Single Top/ single bottom 

PURPLE: Medium Masochist/ pain slut

AQUA: Poly and looking

NAVY: Poly and not looking 

ORANGE: Low Protocol Top/ low protocol bottom 

LIGHT GRAY: Single Owner/ single pet 

LIGHT GREEN: Single Daddy/ single little 

YELLOW: Service Top/ service bottom 

PINK: Performance or Demo Top/ performance or demo bottom 

GOLD: Family Tradition Top/ family tradition bottom 

WHITE WITH BLACK DOTS: Domestic Discipline Top/ domestic discipline bottom 

MAROON: Domestic Service Top/ domestic servant bottom 

ROYAL BLUE: Kitchen service

BLACK WITH WHITE DOTS: High Protocol Trainer

BLACK AND WHITE STRIPES: Short Term Top/ short term bottom (weekend hookup) 

NAVY WITH WHITE DOTS: Community Mediator 

BROWN WITH WHITE DOTS OR STRIPES: Dungeon Master/ dungeon housekeeper

WHITE WITH RED CROSSES: Medical Personnel 

There are more, but these are some of the basics. Enjoy!