So you want to be a slave?

So, you have met a man you think is your perfect Master, you have strapped a collar around your own throat, you have told him that he is your Master and you are his slave. What now?
That is exactly the way many young, new slaves find themselves under collar lately, and they have no education as to what being a slave really means, what it takes to be a slave, or even how to choose a Master. You say you are a slave, but are you really? Do you know what it means? Being a slave is not as easy as it seems. Those of us who are natural slaves do not enter into this kind of relationship easily.
Are you ready to give up your family and friends if your Master does not agree with them? Are you ready to do whatever it takes to be sure your Master is happy, even if it costs you your happiness? Are you ready to say no to things because they do not fit in with your Master's desires or demands?
Being a slave means surrendering your freedom to another person. It means your life is not your own any longer, but it is His. Do you have the trust in Him to know what is best? To make decisions for you? Are you ready to obey His decisions even if they are against what you would have decided?
Are you really ready to have someone decide when you go to bed, when you wake up, what you eat, how much you eat, when you eat? What about how you dress, if you get a piercing, a tattoo, or even cut your hair? Can you tell your parents you can't go to a family dinner when He does not want to?
Can you obey the rules He sets up for you without question, even if you do not understand why? Can you handle a rule being set up without an explanation?
Being a slave is not a ticket to easy street. It does not mean you are able to stay home, not have to work, and just be spoiled, pampered, and taken care of. If you are fortunate enough to have a Master who allows you to stay home, you will be expected to keep the house, to cook, clean up after Him and yourself. Your life will not just be bon-bons, massages, and facials. Your days will be structured, you will be expected to pull your own weight in some way. You will be expected to complete tasks by a specific time or face the consequences.
Those consequences can be anything, as is His right as your Master. Are you ready to face those consequences? Can you answer to Him for your actions? Take responsibility for your choices?
Can you allow someone else to have control over when and if you have sex? And when He decides to have sex, are you able to accept that you may not be permitted to orgasm? Can you accept the fact that you may not be permitted to masturbate, either? You say you are a slave, but can you live your life the way I have described? Without questioning Him at all?
You want to be a slave? Good luck if you don't like the way this entry sounds.
When you have a Master who cares for you, though, it is easier and natural, and one of the most rewarding relationships you will ever experience. But, if you are not ready for all it entails, it is tough and can be very trying.