Proper Care And Maintenance Of Your Dominant

This is a counter to a journal post I saw on Fet. There seems to be a new mindset, that Dominant partners owe something to their submissives. I have seen a proper care for your submissive post from slaves, from submissives, and, most loudly, from baby girls. Where is it written that the only way to make your submissive happy is to do exactly what she wants, when she wants it? If that's what you expect then become a Top. 

Proper Care and Maintenance Of Your Dominant 

• If He has had a long hard day, when He sits down, take off His shoes for Him 

• Offer Him a drink 

• Don't expect Him to jump to your every demand

• Don't try to be the Top

• Do jump to His command

• Don't be upset or accuse Him of not caring if He doesn't want anything sexual one night 

• Don't expect oral sex just because you give it to Him. Personally, I can't respect a Dominant who goes down as often as His sub

• Don't top Him

• Accept His commands with grace and dignity. He is your Top for a reason 

• Do not expect things from Him

• Serve Him as HE needs to be served not how YOU want to serve

• Do not top Him 

• Remember everything you do is a reflection of Him, even if others do not know

• Let Him make decisions for Himself

• If it is part of your dynamic, let Him make the final decisions on all things 

• Do not top Him 

• Seek His advice when appropriate 

• Do not emasculate Him in public or private 

• DO NOT TOP HIM, EVER

• Allow Him to decide what kind of care you need

• Be supportive of him 

• NEVER TOP HIM. You are the bottom, He is the top. You are both in those roles for a reason. 

There are other things I am forgetting, but I got the main point.