Day 3:
When you have done something bad or that He doesn't like, go to Him, tell Him, and ask to be punished. If He uses a belt or His hand to punish you, thank Him after each smack. Never do anything on purpose to receive punishment.
It is human nature. Everyone is going to screw up. The key is to confess when you do mess up. By confessing, you are owning the action. You are saying you know you did wrong.
Asking to be punished, though, is taking it a bit far. Once you confess, demanding punishment is topping from the bottom.
As with everything, being punished in a high protocol relationship has some elements of ritual and protocol. Part of those protocols is to kiss whatever is used to punish me and to count, put loud, the swats. It is rate that I am given a physical punishment, though.
I do like that the book added that last line to the entry. It seems to be an issue that is running rampant with the new crop of submissives lately, being a brat or misbehaving to manipulate their Top into doing what they want done. It is nothing more than manipulation.
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