I actually considered skipping this one. Why? Because I do this already. I feel very uncomfortable if I have to use His given name. I do not like doing it. It feels weird and just not right to me.
I feel more comfortable, more right using His title he has earned it in every way.
But what about around company? What do I do around vanilla people if using Master's given name upsets me so much? Why does it upset me so much? I honestly do not know why it upsets me the way it does. Maybe it's my slave's heart, maybe it is the respect He commands when He walks into the room? I am not sure, honestly, and I don't know if Master really knows how much it effects me.
What titles do I use?
Master, of course. The traditional title used today for one in His position.
I also use Máistir. This it Irish/Gaelic for Master. I use this title as a way to honor His ancestral history and legacy in this thing we do. It is the title I believe I have used for centuries with Him and holds special meaning for us both.
When around vanillas I use either Sir or Love. Both titles confer respect and my submission in the inflection and use. And no one is any wiser about the terms being titles.
I also use Daddy in private because of the Daddy/girl dynamic.
I know today's thing was to actually use the titles, but I have decided to explore the terms I do use and the reasons for the use.
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