If you have been in this lifestyle for less than 6 months, how are you "protecting" people? You barely know an ankle chain from a chain leash, yet you have 6 people you are protecting and mentoring?
You have NO IDEA how much you are making your "Dominant" look like a fool with your behavior. The fact that he has to have other Doms keep an eye on you says either he isn't a Dom at all and is just acting the part to get you to stop hounding him, or that you are so demanding he can't handle you by himself, or that he just can't control or trust you enough to not need help.
Don't even get me started about your behavior.
Your behavior that you post about in an almost bragging way is completely disrespectful. You are telling your Dom, and any other Dom, that by choosing to constantly disobey, you know better than your Dom and you don't trust him to know what you need.
You have a group for subs, great! Awesome! BUT, to have Dons read the group? To encourage Doms to read what is posted? How is this "free space?" And to just not tell us a Dom is reading? That is a violation of privacy and forcing us into your Dynamic.
Oh, and your Dom telling you to "get their opinions?" That just shows him to be lazy, he is asking submissives to do his work and punish, lecture, or shame you for him! It is also putting us into your dynamic. I have my own, don't need to be in yours, thank you very much.
Yes, we all struggle with aspects of submission at times, but, when you choose to disobey? Yeah, that's not struggling, that's topping your Dominant. And the fact that it happens constantly with an excuse at the ready? That just means he is as clueless as you are about you topping him.
Posting about CONSTANT disobedience or "struggles" with the same aspects, about constantly being in trouble, you are turning your Dominant into a laughing stock.
To some of us, titles and roles actually mean something. They are earned, not just taken, they are a thing of honor. To protect someone MEANS something. Master protects His sister, it MEANS He will walk to the ends of the Earth and back on a road paved with thorns, gladly giving His life to keep her safe from harm. Can you really say you will do this for someone you have only met online? How can you have so many Lifestlye Sisters if none of you have the same Dominant? The title is EARNED not just thrown around all willy nilly.
And, no, I will NOT just TELL my Master to do something, who do you think I am? You? Sorry, not happening.
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