After Thinking A Bit.....

This is the last thing I'm going to say about the whole subs' group situation. I spent a lot of time last night really thinking about it all. 

The issue I have, the one that breaks Master's protocols and disrespects His position both with me and our community, is the sneakiness of it all. 

We both know and understand why a Dominant might want to monitor his bottom's activity online. But, if you are as honorable a Dominant as the subs who know you say you are, wouldn't your honor say you should PM the Tops of every single owned sub in that group to let them know, hey I check the group I read what my girl posts and replies to her posts, just to let those Tops know you could possibly read what their girl posts?  

That would be the honorable thing to do instead if, basically, appointing yourself the hall monitor of the group, disrespecting every single Dominant who owns a member of the group who does not know you are monitoring what your girl posts. 

Some of those subs are new, yes, so some of their behavior and their posts/reactions can be excused, but you are a Top, and supposedly a mentor, you should know better. (How a Top can mentor a bottom owned by another I have no idea, honestly) 

To the Tops who own girls in the group: I am sorry your reputations are being treated like this, I am sorry a Top is monitoring your girls without your consent, basically saying you aren't doing a good enough job of it on your own. 

To Master: I am sorry I did not think to ask if the group was monitored by a Dominant. I am sorry I didn't do more to teach the girls how to not embarrass their Dominants by their posts, and I am sorry for the drama from this. 

To the girls: I'm sorry I didn't see it sooner. I'm sorry that, once I found out, I did not counsel you in how to act with a Dominant reading, how to not make it look like your Dominant was lacking in some skill with an "honorable" Dominant reading. I'm sorry I didn't council you to not message a Dominant of someone else to tell him about his girl. 

I failed the group, and for that, I am sorry. 

To the Dominant who was reading, do the honorable thing and inform the other Dominants that you are reading. Maybe doing that will protect your honor, and make you seem less perv-ish and less like a predator. Oh, and find the subs you "mentor" a female sub mentor, as is considered proper.