Some of you have noticed that once a year, I review the rules and repost them here, along with any changes or new rules. I will designate when a new or changed rule is stated and, when appropriate, I will note the reason for specific rules or explain how to follow different rules.
I have the rules set up in different sections since that is how they make the best sense. Some may be overwhelmed by the sheer number of rules, but some are so easy to follow, I do not even notice I am doing it! When a rule calls for an option, I will make a note of Master's preference. The few rules with predefined punishments will be noted with those punishments also stated along with the reason for the punishment.
Unlike most slaves, I am allowed a lot of input on the rules, including suggesting some and asking for changes when needed. Master and I do not have a slave contract for our own reasons, and these rules have developed over the years. We evolved into a 24/7 M/s dynamic over time and, as such, these rules have developed over time as well.
So, here they are, the rules. This replaces any and all past versions of the rules, it is the most current version of the rules, and Master reserves the right to change them at any time. These rules are officially in effect today, February 19, 2013
~~*~~Dress, appearance and grooming~~*~~
~Dress modestly. This means nothing too short, too tight, or too plunging. My body is completely Master's, I will not use my body to tempt others, I will not present an image of Master's slave as "whorish;" I am His whore, not the whole world's.
~The following will not be shown in public dress: Ass cheeks, deep cleavage, ass crack, belly button, nipples, upper thigh, small of the back.
~Panties are optional. While dressed modestly, that bit of naughtyness that only Master and I know about can keep me reminded of my true place.
~Hair will be kept long, neat and clean. If colored, no more than two shades darker or two shades lighter than natural color.
~When in the presence of anyone else, I will cover at least most of my hair, even when alone. With the exception of showering and sleeping, the only time I will be uncovered is with Master's permission. There are few things a woman can control who sees, even the girly bits must be seen by a doctor at times, so the hair is something saved for only Master's full enjoyment.
~Body hair will be shaved or waxed at all times
~Jewelry will be tasteful. Steel Turian collar and three rings will be worn at all times. Anything else added will be simple and modest, clitoral piercing will be left empty at all times. No new piercings will be added without Master's prior permission.
~Tattoos and brands will not be added without Master's prior permission. My body is His and will only be marked as He sees fit.
~The kajira marking Master has designed will be drawn on the upper, outer left thigh at all times until or unless Master changes the design or has it tattooed or branded onto His slave's body.
~If makeup is worn, it will be light, tasteful, natural looking and not gaudy
~If contacts are worn, they will be tinted only for ease of finding them, not to change or alter the color of the eyes.
~Finger nails will be neat and filed, not too long, and painted at all times. They will be repainted at least once a week
~I am to wear at least one article of clothing in Master's colors at all times
~~*~~Health, Diet, Well being, Safety~~*~~
(Most in this section are caring for Master's property, making sure I am healthy and safe)
~All medication prescribed by a doctor will be taken on time and as directed
~Illegal drugs will NOT be tolerated under ANY circumstances. This will result in instant loss of collar, divorce proceedings, and loss of custody of minor child.
~While cooking, planning menus, and doing grocery shopping, I will take weight management into consideration. Snacks will only be healthy, including fruit and veggie chunks
~I will not drink to excess, even when given permission to drink
~I will limit myself to one glass of wine a week and never when minor child is awake
~When driving, I will use a hands free device for phone calls so both hands are on the wheel. I will not text while in motion. If Master sends a text while I am driving, I will reply that I am driving at the next safe stopping point (red light, stop sign, pulling over into a parking lot or the shoulder, etc) and answer the text promptly and properly when I have reached my destination.
~I will be in bed by 10PM with lights out at 11PM unless prior permission is obtained or I am with Master. I will be awake and ready to start the day by 6:30AM.
~My last cup of coffee will be finished by noon. This includes iced coffee drinks.
~~*~~Titles, Public displays of submission, Routines, Rituals Nonsexual misc~~*~~
~In private or at community events, I will use the title Master exclusively
~In public, I will use a respectful title for Master, always remembering the respect He has earned, His position and the power He has earned
~I will always be honest with Master, no matter the perceived consequences of the truth.
~I will always be faithful to Master, our commitment, and our wedding vows. Breaking this rule carries the penalty of divorce proceedings and forfeiture of the collar.
~If Master is wearing shoes when He sits down at home, I will kneel at His feet and remove His socks and shoes
~Master will be served dinner before I am.
~When in public, I will respectfully defer to Master's decisions, silently asking His opinions. I will not contradict Him or raise a scene. At home, His opinion will be asked and obeyed.
~When spending more than $20, I will seek permission and inform Master of the final amount spent.
~I will send Master a text upon waking and upon going to bed, first and last thing done every day. I will also send Him a daily email with a to do list for the day. If something is not done from teh to do list at bed time, I will email Master informing Him of what was not done and giving a reason.
~If Master asks for pictures of daily accomplishments, they will be sent without expectation of a response.
~I will sleep in a Gorean fashion with my left ankle fettered to the bed, with ben wa balls inserted at least two nights a week, unless ordered otherwise
~When leaving a conversation, I will ask permission or wait to be dismissed
~When in Master's presence, I will request permission before leaving the room or wait to be dismissed
~When with Master, I will not sit on furniture unless permission is granted
~Master's plans for any time come before my daily responsibilities, but said plans are no excuse to not do what is supposed to be done that day
~~*~~Sexual~~*~~
~I will always be naked before Master is
~With one word, I will drop to my knees in a manner to display my body in front of Master. I will have no shame in my body when with Master.
~Anything sexual will be done on Master's time, at His command, according to His desire. I will not push myself on Him, but rather let Him decide what will be done at His own pace.
~I will not top from the bottom
~Any desires or fantasies I have, I will voice them and allow Master to decide when or if they will be indulged.
~When performing oral sex on Master, I will present my tongue for His pleasure before starting
~I will never orgasm without Master's permission and will never fake an orgasm
~I will have three "free nights" a week where I am allowed self pleasure. During these nights, I will orgasm only once. If I desire additional orgasms or additional nights, I will ask permission first.
~If Master gives a sexual assignment, it will replace a free night
~If I desire physical pain or "punishment," I will tell Master that is what I desire. I will accept His decision as final.
~I will not post nude photos of myself online
~If Master requests a picture be sent to Him, I will do so without argument or delay and without digital retouching
~I will be available for any sexual play at any time with no notice, be it in person, over the phone, an assignment, or other purpose
~~*~~Playroom~~*~~
~I will not enter the playroom for any reason without permission
~When in the playroom for any reason, I will not wear any clothing (the only exception being a head covering when alone)
~When instructed to go to the playroom, I will do so with no argument and kneel in the corner and wait for further instructions
~These rules also are in effect when told to clean the playroom
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