Thursday, September 1, 2011

Who is my Master?

Master recently wrote a post about His girls, so I wanted to write one about Him. He goes by the name of MasterJL.
Master and I have been married for 10 years and, although we have had our ups and downs, as every couple will, we always know that we love each other very much. He has been my rock when I needed one the most and even when I didn't know I needed one, He was there for me. I have seen Him cry, I have seen Him angry, and I have seen Him laugh. My relationship with Master reminds me very much of the song "Do You Love Me?" from Fiddler On The Roof.
"For 25 (10) years, I've washed Your clothes/
Cooked Your meals/
Cleaned Your house (ok, that one needs improvement)/
Given You children....
For 25 (10) years, I've lived with Him/
Fought with Him, starved with Him/
For 25 (10) years, my bed is His/
If that's not love/
What is?"
Even when things seem hopeless, I always know I can turn to Master when I need Him, even if I do not know I need Him. I have soaked His shoulder with an ocean of tears in the past. No matter what, I know His strong, loving, protective arms will always be there for me, welcoming me, comforting me.
We started our relationship as a vanilla one, transitioning slowly into a BDSM dynamic.
On the vanilla side, Master is a proverbial good ol boy, He works hard to provide the best life for His family He can and will take a bullet for His friends. He is fiercely protective of those he cares about. A good man, a good husband and a good father.
On the BDSM side, He is a master of the mental arts. With a look, He can control a submissive. He prefers to bond with a sub mentally, getting as deeply into their mind as He can. He does not enjoy the physical methods of control the way others do, but has been known to indulge His pain sluts occasionally when we behave. He does not punish often because He does not have the need to, but when He does, even though the punishment may not seem like one, the subject knows she has been disciplined.
Some Dominants don't think their slave's feelings, thoughts or opinions matter, Master is not one of them. When a decision has to be made, He will ask each girl under His collar for her opinions and thoughts, taking them all into consideration before making the decision He feels is best for all involved.
He is quick to offer a protection collar but a full collar is different. He will not offer one unless He knows He can trust the girl in question. If He feels He can and feels all parties involved will benefit from a collar being offered, He will offer one.
He has a knack for training a girl without her ever realizing she is being trained. He enjoys taking a new slave and training her to be exactly the kind of slave He wants her to be. I call Him the "Slavegirl Whisperer" because He is. He can read slave girls very quickly. You know how some people take in injured pets and rehabilitate them? Master likes to do that with slaves.
He has found His calling as a poly Master. It is something He enjoys doing and He is happier when He has two or three girls under collar, complimenting each other's abilities, learning from each other, supporting Him. That is not to say He is not happy when there is only one, or He is unfulfilled, not at all, He just knows the benefits of having more than one.
He is not afraid to let His slaves see His vulnerabilities, letting us see that He is human. It is just another thing His slaves love about Him.
And that is my Master.

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