In a discussion last night, the question of what collars I have worn was mentioned, so I wanted to post what collars I have worn since Master collared me.
Readers of this blog know Master and I are poly and that we were seeing my former Domme for a while. So, how did the collars work then?
Let me start by saying that I was still head over heels for her and that might have clouded how some of this was done. Things will be done a little differently in the future, but this is the way things went down in the past.
I, of course, have Master's collar. For this, I wear a locking every day collar that simply looks like a cool necklace to people who do not know what it is. I wore this at all times, except when she and I were playing together without Master. I removed the every day collar without Master's permission. In the future, though, permission will be asked.
When my former Domme offered me her collar once again, I accepted it without thinking what Master would say. That is one of the regrets I had about the relationship. It was easy to fall back into old habits with her, and I did not think about the consequences and how that would look to Master that I accepted her collar without asking Him first. In the future, if a sister were to offer her collar, it would have to be with Master's permission and it will be secondary to His collar. To represent her collar, I wore a thumb ring on my right thumb. I like that idea and will possibly request the same set up again if a sister were to offer a collar again.
To signify the mutual collar from both Master and the ex, I wore a wrist band on my right wrist. This was during play time between the three of us as well as when I was acting in a submissive role to both Master and her at the same time. This may happen again in the future as Master enjoys occasionally seeing the dynamic between His girls and seeing how we act together or how we act with Him involved, with Him and any sister as co-Dom/mes where I am concerned.
So, that is a break down in my collars since I have accepted Master's collar. We will see where things go from here and in the future. You never know where things may progress.... :)
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