It's all in the technique

I am often asked how to give the perfect blow job. Well, while it is not the same for everyone, here is the answer to how to give a better blow job. This question comes from a woman who was told she needs to improve her skills by her husband...
This is quite embarrassing, my husband has told me that I don't give very good blow jobs. Are there any tips you can offer?

Well, while I do give a good blow job (my Husband has no complaints, lol) I will have to defer to my BFF on this one. It is common knowledge between my BFF, myself and our husbands that hers is luckier then mine since she does give a better blow job, lol. Here are her tips to a better blow job:
- Don't just go up and down, provide varying amounts of suction and speeds
- Use your tongue, you can move your tongue around while he's in your mouth, if you need to, think of it like a tasty lollipop
- Men always enjoy deep throating, if you can't do this without gagging, try to make sure you don't stick your tongue out while trying to get him as far as possible. There is a spray that you can buy that numbs the back of your throat if you want to use that instead. The main key is to stay relaxed, if you feel yourself starting to gag, just move him back a little bit for a moment, that sensation will then pass.
- The most important thing to remember is that if you enjoy what you're doing, the rest will come naturally.
- Let him direct you completely, leave your mouth as relaxed as possible and have him control the speed, movement and such by directing your head.
- Some other fun things: Altoids, turn the lights off, get a mint altoid, bite down on it (you'll see blue sparks if the lights are off) chew it into a bit of a paste and then go down on him. If you blow air lightly onto the penis after using the altoids for a moment or too, it's makes it really sensitive and the guy should LOVE it. Also, get a mouthful of skittles (not too many), the texture is cool for him, and the flavor is great for you!
- Try the stuff like Great Head or other flavored lubricants on the market, they make it more fun
I also would like to add that if you are unsure of what he may or may not like, ask him. I hope this can help the women out there who are unsure of their technique. The tips do work, lol, I know my husband is thankful to my bff that she has given them to me, lol.

There is an old saying, "Let go of my ears, I know what I am doing." Well, if one is unsure of the way to perform oral sex on one's partner, then tell him "Hold my ears and help me; I am unsure of what I am doing." Good Luck!