Here is a question for all those who say equal marriage rights should include gay and lesbian marriage. What about those of us who are in a poly relationship? What if Master, Tiger_Eyes and I decided we wanted to make this union legal, giving her the same legal rights as I have? This also poses another question, and it forces us to look at the world in shades of gray instead of just black and white. When does a relationship like mine cross the line from legal to illegal?
Is it when we all make a commitment to each other? Or is it not until Master decides He wants to marry Tiger_Eyes as well and we want ot bring her into our lives in that manner? If we are in a committed relationship, why should she be denied the legal rights I have as His wife just because I was with Him first?
When does this relationship become illegal? Where does one draw the line?
What if, many many many many years from now, Master gets sick and I would like Tiger_Eyes input on decisions? Legally, she would have no right to have any say. What about tax benefits that come from being married? Does she not get any just because she isn't legally married to either of us? Doe she have no right to health care benefits no matter how long she may live with us in the future?
These are things to ponder. Why can't Master and I add a third person on mutual love and respect to the marriage if all are consenting adults without worrying if it is legal or illegal?
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